<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318</id><updated>2011-12-01T13:52:33.714-07:00</updated><category term='sharing'/><category term='bonding'/><category term='sacrifices'/><category term='toddler antics'/><category term='car seat'/><category term='birthday'/><category term='well meaning loved ones'/><category term='personal'/><category term='law'/><category term='vehicle'/><category term='books'/><category term='mastitis'/><category term='birth'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='needs'/><category term='beliefs'/><category term='schooling'/><category term='safety'/><category term='pet peeve'/><category term='lifestyle'/><category term='sleep'/><category term='breastfeeding'/><category term='food'/><category term='discipline'/><category term='history'/><category term='newborn'/><category term='background'/><category term='pregnancy'/><category term='teaching values'/><category term='growing up'/><title type='text'>Aimed at the Heart</title><subtitle type='html'>&lt;b&gt;Attempting to be a Wife and Mother to the &lt;br&gt; 
full extent that God intended me to be&lt;/b&gt;</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>48</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-4698401195961920751</id><published>2011-11-15T12:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-15T12:12:23.198-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><title type='text'>A Confession</title><summary type='text'>I have seriously neglected my blog. My apologies to those of you who enjoy reading it and have missed my posts. A quick update: We're still farming and it's a lot of work but it's a great lifestyle. My business of sewing ring slings and various other baby related goods is taking off and I love having a creative outlet. Caleb is the most amazing 3 year old I could ever ask for and constantly keeps</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/4698401195961920751/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/11/confession.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/4698401195961920751'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/4698401195961920751'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/11/confession.html' title='A Confession'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-6328551857296502802</id><published>2011-05-19T10:34:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2011-05-20T10:03:49.369-06:00</updated><title type='text'>The Exact Birth I Needed</title><summary type='text'>Due to the fact that some people have been having difficulties opening up the large PDF file for the Birth Issues Magazine, I copied and pasted it directly into my blog. I haven't proofread to make sure it's all proper but I tried to put the paragraph breaks in the right spots. I also noticed that sometimes a double "ff" would turn into a symbol. I think I changed them all. Hope that you enjoy </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/6328551857296502802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/05/exact-birth-i-needed.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6328551857296502802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6328551857296502802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/05/exact-birth-i-needed.html' title='The Exact Birth I Needed'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-3034741155848514958</id><published>2011-05-16T10:26:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2011-05-16T10:28:56.244-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birth'/><title type='text'>It's Online!</title><summary type='text'>The magazine that published my birth story is finally online. So for anyone who wants to read it, feel free to check it out. Birth Issues Online: Rural Maternity CareIt's in PDF format and can take a while to load. My story is on page 38. Enjoy!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/3034741155848514958/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/05/its-online.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3034741155848514958'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3034741155848514958'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/05/its-online.html' title='It&apos;s Online!'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-3847472495866138439</id><published>2011-04-28T12:04:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2011-04-28T12:43:54.417-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Wow, It's been Ages!</title><summary type='text'>I haven't posted for quite some some. And I haven't posted regularly for even longer. It seems that life has started to sneak away on me. The last part of my pregnancy was very difficult. I was in a lot of pain and tried to just keep my life rolling along until I had the baby and didn't have to be pregnant anymore. It's sad that such a beautiful part of my life was spent with my just wishing it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/3847472495866138439/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/04/wow-its-been-ages.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3847472495866138439'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3847472495866138439'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/04/wow-its-been-ages.html' title='Wow, It&apos;s been Ages!'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-75635863104645599</id><published>2011-02-25T13:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-02-25T13:39:54.251-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.facebook.com/?ref=logo#' title=''/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/75635863104645599/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/02/blog-post.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/75635863104645599'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/75635863104645599'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2011/02/blog-post.html' title=''/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-153245774900448269</id><published>2010-12-30T14:16:00.004-07:00</published><updated>2010-12-30T14:24:37.741-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='newborn'/><title type='text'>Baby News!</title><summary type='text'>Just a quick note to those who haven't heard yet. I had the baby!Isaac was born Dec 23rd at 12:51pm after about 3.5 hours of labour. He was born at home in a pool in my living room. Caught by my friend Megan while Caleb cheered in the background and Adam held me close. It was an amazing an beautiful labour and birth and I'm in the process of writing up my birth story and will post it as soon as </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/153245774900448269/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/12/baby-news.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/153245774900448269'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/153245774900448269'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/12/baby-news.html' title='Baby News!'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-1302002115031494130</id><published>2010-11-24T11:06:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-11-24T11:06:38.706-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='schooling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>What I've Read</title><summary type='text'>I thought that after the summer I would find more time to write but apparently that isn't quite the way things are working out. I try to take it easy, especially in this weather and at this stage of pregnancy, but for some reason silly little things keep making it into my schedule to tie up my time. But I really wanted to post on some of the great books I've read over the last year. A lot of them</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/1302002115031494130/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/11/what-ive-read.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1302002115031494130'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1302002115031494130'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/11/what-ive-read.html' title='What I&apos;ve Read'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-7148684529447631641</id><published>2010-10-29T16:39:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-10-29T16:39:11.682-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pet peeve'/><title type='text'>Sippy Cups - Good, Bad or Ugly?</title><summary type='text'>So I have a love-hate relationship with sippy cups. I personally believe that there is no reason for a child to ever use sippy cups as their full time cups. I understand that fluid requirements for a formula fed baby are a little different but a breastfed baby can get all of it's fluid from breastmilk directly up till about a year. After that point most children are very capable of using a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/7148684529447631641/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/sippy-cups-good-bad-or-ugly.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7148684529447631641'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7148684529447631641'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/sippy-cups-good-bad-or-ugly.html' title='Sippy Cups - Good, Bad or Ugly?'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-2631193390390072213</id><published>2010-10-19T17:48:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2010-10-19T17:54:23.718-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='schooling'/><title type='text'>Baby Steps to a Better Life</title><summary type='text'>I just read a really inspirational post on trying to "do it all." I came across this mama's blog a while back and she had some very similar ideas about lifestyle that I do. She called her post "The Impossible is Possible." There are some really terrific women in my life who seem to have it all together. They eat the the right kinds of foods (unprocessed, whole ingredients, made from scratch etc) </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/2631193390390072213/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/baby-steps-to-better-life.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/2631193390390072213'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/2631193390390072213'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/baby-steps-to-better-life.html' title='Baby Steps to a Better Life'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-8374040327806258194</id><published>2010-10-14T15:15:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-10-14T15:15:33.196-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthday'/><title type='text'>Reflections</title><summary type='text'>As I am enjoying some quiet time while Caleb is napping I realized that I'm quite bored right now. Sure there are plenty of things that I could be doing. Well... most of it consists of different aspects of housework. Instead I'm sitting here eating my second piece of pie (and last because it's all gone now) and reflecting a bit over the last year. I realized that I've had this blog for a whole </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/8374040327806258194/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/reflections.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8374040327806258194'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8374040327806258194'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/reflections.html' title='Reflections'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-8622468059176993261</id><published>2010-10-07T12:39:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-10-07T12:39:52.191-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sacrifices'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bonding'/><title type='text'>An Exclusive Club</title><summary type='text'>So last night when Adam came in from milking he wanted me to listen to a song. He said that the words really spoke to him. The song was "I Believe in Angels" by George Canyon. I had heard the song before but I don't usually pay really close attention to the words when I'm listening to the radio. Adam listens to the radio pretty much all day every day when he's working in the machinery or milking </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/8622468059176993261/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/exclusive-club.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8622468059176993261'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8622468059176993261'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/10/exclusive-club.html' title='An Exclusive Club'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-1867820741557236647</id><published>2010-09-24T14:16:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2010-09-24T14:43:58.424-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Crazy Summer</title><summary type='text'>So my blog has been put on the back-burner for a while as I've had other committments these past few months that took up most of my time. Plus I used to write while Caleb was sleeping but a lot of time I will crash with him at nap time. It's wonderful that he still naps every day!This doesn't mean that my blog hasn't been on my mind. In fact, it's been on my mind for sometiems hours at a time. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/1867820741557236647/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/09/crazy-summer.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1867820741557236647'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1867820741557236647'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/09/crazy-summer.html' title='Crazy Summer'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-8022234763873626222</id><published>2010-07-22T10:18:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-07-22T10:18:42.564-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pregnancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='discipline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='food'/><title type='text'>Hormones and "Losing it"</title><summary type='text'>So last night I woke up thinking that maybe, just MAYBE, my hormones are getting back to normal. I went through my life and this was about the train of my thoughts: I'm not on antidepressants anymore, that's good. I'm not on birth control (and don't ever want to go back on the pill!). I'm not lactating any more (though we're still nursing)... Yup, I think my hormones are finally getting a chance </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/8022234763873626222/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/07/hormones-and-losing-it.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8022234763873626222'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8022234763873626222'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/07/hormones-and-losing-it.html' title='Hormones and &quot;Losing it&quot;'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-7994459857075808514</id><published>2010-07-02T21:28:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-07-02T21:28:47.226-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pregnancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birth'/><title type='text'>A New Topic of Study</title><summary type='text'>Ever since I had Caleb I've been interested in reading books, article, forums any anything else I can find of parenting and breastfeeding. Lately my interest has expanded. I am still reading on all of the above but I've also added reading and research on childbirth and pregnancy to the list. Mostly childbirth since pregnancy seems (to me) pretty straightforward. I have read on VBACs (vaginal </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/7994459857075808514/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/07/new-topic-of-study.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7994459857075808514'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7994459857075808514'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/07/new-topic-of-study.html' title='A New Topic of Study'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-8949938924514217707</id><published>2010-06-23T09:16:00.006-06:00</published><updated>2010-06-29T13:31:49.728-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><title type='text'>Toddler Translations</title><summary type='text'>So my life has been a complete roller coaster of the last few months making my blogging time very limited. Every day I spend with my little family gets more and more interesting and involved. I keep thinking about how much Caleb has started to make me laugh (not that he didn't before of course) with his funny little antics. I thought it might be interesting to give you a bit of an insight into </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/8949938924514217707/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/06/toddler-translations.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8949938924514217707'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8949938924514217707'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/06/toddler-translations.html' title='Toddler Translations'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/TCpIgN4eBRI/AAAAAAAAACg/j8kMxmG9vBI/s72-c/DSC03073.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-3028385353493017747</id><published>2010-06-11T00:22:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2010-06-11T00:24:53.967-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='schooling'/><title type='text'>Thoughts for the Future</title><summary type='text'>A few of you know that I have been thinking/planning to homeschool my child(ren) instead of sending them to public or private school. Through my life I've attended public schools, Christian schools, as well as homeschooled for a couple of years. I will be honost and say that I did well in all 3 systems. I think that school was something that I always enjoyed. Perhaps it's because my dad was a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/3028385353493017747/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/06/thoughts-for-future.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3028385353493017747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3028385353493017747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/06/thoughts-for-future.html' title='Thoughts for the Future'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-8136290708229033824</id><published>2010-05-07T13:28:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T13:47:14.805-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pregnancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bonding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birth'/><title type='text'>Flashback to my Cesarean</title><summary type='text'>So last night I had a strange dream. And stranger still, it was one of those dreams that you remember with such clarity that you wonder if it was really a dream at all. In this dream I went to the RD Regional Hospital "Birth Office" (that's how I knew it was a dream because I'm pretty sure that office doesn't actually exist). I sat down with the lady for an "interview" of sorts about my birth </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/8136290708229033824/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/05/flashback-to-my-cesarean.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8136290708229033824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8136290708229033824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/05/flashback-to-my-cesarean.html' title='Flashback to my Cesarean'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5448846286076202634</id><published>2010-04-15T10:58:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2010-04-15T13:59:40.230-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mastitis'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sleep'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><title type='text'>No Longer a Baby! - Update Post</title><summary type='text'>First off I would like apologize for my lack of posting these last few weeks. It's been a crazy time for us lately. I figure I should take some time to fill you in on some of what has been going on.One of the "recent events" in my life has occured over a link to a video trailer that I posted on my Facebook page. The documentary is about the influence of the overuse of infant formulas in America. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5448846286076202634/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/04/no-longer-baby-update-post.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5448846286076202634'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5448846286076202634'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/04/no-longer-baby-update-post.html' title='No Longer a Baby! - Update Post'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-3434749063782752728</id><published>2010-03-24T14:09:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2010-03-24T14:31:38.334-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Prayer for Patience</title><summary type='text'>Caleb is at a stage in which he has more energy than I do. This is very very bad for me! I love that he is in a good mood nearly all the time but does he really have to run around the house yelling "Mum-bee Mum-bee" all the time?He's not a high energy child and I'm very blessed with how mellow he really is. But he's still a toddler and toddlers love to get involved with everything. He loves to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/3434749063782752728/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/03/prayer-for-patience.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3434749063782752728'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3434749063782752728'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/03/prayer-for-patience.html' title='Prayer for Patience'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-8757160183915925957</id><published>2010-03-11T16:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-03-11T16:45:47.908-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='well meaning loved ones'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bonding'/><title type='text'>Motherly Love - It's not always instant</title><summary type='text'>Pregnancy was very surreal to me for the first number of months. It was hard for me to wrap my mind around the fact that there was a little person growing inside me. That the little feet that kicked my tummy would one day be the same little feet I'd play "This Little Piggy" with. I won’t talk here about how my birth experience and how it was completely not what I wanted. I won’t complain about </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/8757160183915925957/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/03/motherly-love-its-not-always-instant.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8757160183915925957'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8757160183915925957'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/03/motherly-love-its-not-always-instant.html' title='Motherly Love - It&apos;s not always instant'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-9005183564542563461</id><published>2010-03-05T18:19:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-03-05T18:19:30.945-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bonding'/><title type='text'>Quirks and Anecdotes</title><summary type='text'>So having a child really changes your life. Before you're married and settled down you talk about "the good ole days." Then you get married and talk about your adorable cats (don't laugh, I know many people who do this!). Then you have children and your topic of conversation changes once again. So I'm going to take this entry to tell you some of the cute things that Caleb does and says.He is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/9005183564542563461/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/03/quirks-and-anecdotes.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/9005183564542563461'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/9005183564542563461'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/03/quirks-and-anecdotes.html' title='Quirks and Anecdotes'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-609001781473928145</id><published>2010-02-23T13:21:00.005-07:00</published><updated>2010-02-23T17:06:39.117-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bonding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='newborn'/><title type='text'>Some of the lesser known facts on Breastfeeding</title><summary type='text'>As most of my regular readers know I am very passionate about breastfeeding. I understand that not all moms choose to do it and I understand that it's not always easy. You're entitled to your thoughts and opinions and I'm entitled to mine. That being said, I think that there are many facts about it that even breastfeeding mothers do not know about. For example, did you know that it is recommended</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/609001781473928145/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/some-of-lesser-known-facts-on.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/609001781473928145'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/609001781473928145'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/some-of-lesser-known-facts-on.html' title='Some of the lesser known facts on Breastfeeding'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-4294732838148303961</id><published>2010-02-21T08:55:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-02-21T08:58:44.142-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><title type='text'>Christmas in February</title><summary type='text'>So last night Caleb brought me a book. "The Stroy of Mary." Apparently he wanted to hear (a few times) about the conception, birth and celebration of Jesus. So as I was reading the book to him I asked him to point out baby Jesus. He loves babies and usually points to them and signs that they need a diaper change. Last night, however, he kept signing "cheese." I thought at first he was hungry. It </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/4294732838148303961/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/christmas-in-february.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/4294732838148303961'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/4294732838148303961'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/christmas-in-february.html' title='Christmas in February'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-7596564894202630451</id><published>2010-02-17T18:28:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-02-17T18:31:25.323-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Blog Design</title><summary type='text'>Just wanted to let you know that I am working on making some changes to the look of my blog. I have very little knowledge on how to do this and am making it up as I go. As you can see, the header changed, It's the wrong size and it's kind of dorky looking (IMO) so I'm working on correcting that. If anyone has a good tutorial or any ideas on how to do some blog design I'd be interested in hearing </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/7596564894202630451/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/blog-design.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7596564894202630451'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7596564894202630451'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/blog-design.html' title='Blog Design'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-970556793358125046</id><published>2010-02-16T15:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-02-16T15:47:14.473-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='discipline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pet peeve'/><title type='text'>Hitting and Throwing - What Worked for Us</title><summary type='text'>I feel like I'm constantly talking about discipline. But it occurred to me that, at this age, it seems that a large part of parenting consists of disciplining. He's almost two (yikes!) and is at that age where he's really starting to learn that he can make his own decisions and doesn't actually have to do exactly as mama tells him to (remember that Free Will I talked about last week?). I am sure </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/970556793358125046/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/hitting-and-throwing-what-worked-for-us.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/970556793358125046'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/970556793358125046'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/hitting-and-throwing-what-worked-for-us.html' title='Hitting and Throwing - What Worked for Us'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-2531952223363835266</id><published>2010-02-09T16:57:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-02-09T16:57:09.673-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><title type='text'>The Perfect Parent - Part 2</title><summary type='text'>So last week I talked about the toddler in the grocery store. I just want to address the comment that was made about the discipline factor involved in parenting. I completely agree that most parents need to be more patient and just accept their children will be children and try things out. But, in my mind at least, patience and discipline go hand in hand. I read a really great post about spanking</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/2531952223363835266/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/perfect-parent-part-2.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/2531952223363835266'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/2531952223363835266'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/perfect-parent-part-2.html' title='The Perfect Parent - Part 2'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-3434217481119371996</id><published>2010-02-03T15:55:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2010-02-03T16:10:44.687-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><title type='text'>Crumbs</title><summary type='text'>Just wanted to tell you about a cute thing that Caleb just did:He was eating cake and decided to completely crumble it. So I put it in a bowl so he could eat the crumbs with a spoon. When you combine a toddler and crumbs there is bound to be a bit of a mess on the floor. So I swept the floor while Caleb watched. He then proceeded to applaud my efforts! It's nice to be cheered on for doing regular</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/3434217481119371996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/crumbs.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3434217481119371996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3434217481119371996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/crumbs.html' title='Crumbs'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-1860169672438229594</id><published>2010-02-03T13:41:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-02-03T13:41:47.893-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pet peeve'/><title type='text'>The Perfect Parent - Part 1</title><summary type='text'>I'm going to start by apologizing for the delay in posting up a new entry. Caleb was sick for a few days last week and then there was the day where he woke up with no fever (hooray!) but had a lot of trouble cutting a tooth. (Teething is not a new experience for us but the first half of his teeth came after no fussing but just a 3 hour nap. So the pain that he was in for this particular tooth was</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/1860169672438229594/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/perfect-parent-part-1.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1860169672438229594'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1860169672438229594'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/02/perfect-parent-part-1.html' title='The Perfect Parent - Part 1'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-4011125678147242457</id><published>2010-01-20T22:24:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T14:37:59.013-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sacrifices'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Being a Wife too</title><summary type='text'>I'm going to start off with being perfectly honost with you. I'm not so great at this one!I love my husband, he's amazing and I know with 100% certainty that he is the man that God put on this earth for me to spend the rest of my life with. I can honostly say that in over 5 years of marriage and almost 8 years of being together, I have never wished he didn't come into my life. I'm not going to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/4011125678147242457/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/01/being-wife-too.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/4011125678147242457'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/4011125678147242457'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/01/being-wife-too.html' title='Being a Wife too'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-6738817893888700217</id><published>2010-01-13T16:16:00.002-07:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T13:04:17.288-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='well meaning loved ones'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bonding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='food'/><title type='text'>The Significance of Feeding</title><summary type='text'>I have so many friends and acquaintances who are at the point that their loved ones want to feed their babies. These are babies that are anywhere from 100% breastfed (no bottles) to ones who are supplemented with either breastmilk or formula, to babies who are 100% formula fed. It's the same dilemma with each one. Loving friends and family always want to help feed the baby.By looking at nature's </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/6738817893888700217/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/01/significance-of-feeding.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6738817893888700217'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6738817893888700217'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/01/significance-of-feeding.html' title='The Significance of Feeding'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-1865070576410257065</id><published>2010-01-04T14:13:00.004-07:00</published><updated>2010-01-04T15:00:17.572-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='discipline'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pet peeve'/><title type='text'>Say No to No</title><summary type='text'>I was on a forum a few days ago and there was a question that was asked by a mom. In summary, she was asking if 6 months was too young to tell your child "NO." I was a little disappointed by some of the responses given. The majority of them went something like this "I've heard it's not good to tell them NO but I do it anyway" or like this "I've been told NO and I turned out fine."It's not a great</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/1865070576410257065/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/01/say-no-to-no.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1865070576410257065'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/1865070576410257065'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2010/01/say-no-to-no.html' title='Say No to No'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-6248003132673802981</id><published>2009-12-23T18:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-12-23T18:03:39.130-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><title type='text'>Mary Through the Eyes of aToddler</title><summary type='text'>I have been having "one of those days" for the last two days. For some reason I woke up on Tuesday morning with my patience stretched very thin and it got worse as the day went on. To be honest, I have no idea why I was so stressed out. Sure I've got a Christmas to-do list, but nothing extraordinary. I guess you could just say that I woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Any mom will understand </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/6248003132673802981/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/mary-through-eyes-of-atoddler.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6248003132673802981'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6248003132673802981'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/mary-through-eyes-of-atoddler.html' title='Mary Through the Eyes of aToddler'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-3926057732421182929</id><published>2009-12-21T12:25:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2009-12-21T14:08:42.739-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Christmas Traditions</title><summary type='text'>Last year Caleb was 8 months old at Christmas and could have cared less about anything that we were doing. He's still a little young but, at 20 months, he is much more aware of the fact that something is going on. He notices the Christmas tree and sees them at other peoples houses (he points at it and shakes his head because he knows he's not supposed to touch it). We had our Christmas </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/3926057732421182929/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/christmas-traditions.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3926057732421182929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3926057732421182929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/christmas-traditions.html' title='Christmas Traditions'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5012341124813965541</id><published>2009-12-15T12:08:00.005-07:00</published><updated>2009-12-19T09:08:16.963-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><title type='text'>Babies and Housework</title><summary type='text'>I have contemplated writing on this topic for quite some time. I actually dreamt about this post last night and what I should write in it! A big part of me hesitated because it's definitely not something that I have down to a "t." But it occurred to me that's probably the point. You don't have to do it all perfectly. As of the time of my writing this I have dishes in my sink, laundry in my washer</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5012341124813965541/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/babies-and-housework.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5012341124813965541'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5012341124813965541'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/babies-and-housework.html' title='Babies and Housework'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5327344657690872929</id><published>2009-12-07T22:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-12-07T22:41:12.986-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='discipline'/><title type='text'>Throwing a Fit vs Communication</title><summary type='text'>I've mentioned how Caleb is such an easy child to pretty much every one that I know. And I will mention it again for those of you who don't know. He's very laid back and doesn't really get into stuff he shouldn't be into. He's also perfectly content playing by himself for sometimes hours at a time. Every once in a while he comes to check up on me and pulls me to where he has been playing because </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5327344657690872929/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/throwing-fit-vs-communication.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5327344657690872929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5327344657690872929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/throwing-fit-vs-communication.html' title='Throwing a Fit vs Communication'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-3343090179046171345</id><published>2009-12-01T17:48:00.004-07:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T18:16:01.114-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='food'/><title type='text'>I'm on a Veggie Strike Mom!</title><summary type='text'>For the last two months Caleb has been on a veggie strike. He refuses to eat them. He had never been picky at all until a couple of months ago. He actually loved to eat his vegetables (especially peas). Then one day he decided that they were no good. I tried to prepare them in different ways and offer him different types, but he always picked around them. I'm not sure why he decided that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/3343090179046171345/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-on-veggie-strike-mom.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3343090179046171345'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/3343090179046171345'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/12/im-on-veggie-strike-mom.html' title='I&apos;m on a Veggie Strike Mom!'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-6957640774144416072</id><published>2009-11-24T17:18:00.008-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-24T18:00:11.867-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teaching values'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lifestyle'/><title type='text'>The Value of Stewardship</title><summary type='text'>I've had a hymn stuck in my head the last while. It comes on and off and has been circulating through my head for probably several months. The hymn is "Living for Jesus" and it's by Thomas Chisholm.http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/l/i/livingfj.htmThere's a link to the tune/lyrics if you've never heard of it. I think that it's been on the tip of my tongue lately is because living for Jesus is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/6957640774144416072/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/value-of-stewardship.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6957640774144416072'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/6957640774144416072'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/value-of-stewardship.html' title='The Value of Stewardship'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-8143459497023408887</id><published>2009-11-20T13:51:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-20T14:00:54.376-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sleep'/><title type='text'>An evening out for Mama</title><summary type='text'>So Caleb is finally back into his normal(ish) routine. He has no extra teeth and I still haven't figured out why he was so restless last week. But I think that responding to his cues is definatly paying off. It might seem late to some moms (especially those who have done "sleep training") but Caleb fell asleep without nursing. He usually nurses for a bit when we crawl into bed and then unlatches </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/8143459497023408887/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/evening-out-for-mama.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8143459497023408887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/8143459497023408887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/evening-out-for-mama.html' title='An evening out for Mama'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5212369890266919711</id><published>2009-11-16T21:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T08:49:23.469-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Lots of Kids</title><summary type='text'>I offered to watch my friend's 3 children today and I  just got home. It was great! I think that it helps that her kids are usually pretty well behaved. Her boys played really well with Caleb and her duaghter was such a little snuggle bug. It was a little bit of an opportunity for me to see how challenging 4 kids could be. I learned a few things:- 3 years apart is a good age because then you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5212369890266919711/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/lots-of-kids.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5212369890266919711'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5212369890266919711'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/lots-of-kids.html' title='Lots of Kids'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-677907791483862202</id><published>2009-11-14T09:46:00.003-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-14T10:15:56.657-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sleep'/><title type='text'>Sleep, Glorious Sleep!</title><summary type='text'>I had started to take Caleb's sleep pattern a little bit for granted. I know this because his sleep pattern has changed the last couple nights. Caleb has been a great sleeper since the day he was born. He sleeps when we sleep and when he wakes up in the middle of the night he usually goes right back to sleep. I just got used to the fact that, as a mother, I'm probably never going to get a full 8 </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/677907791483862202/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/sleep-glorious-sleep.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/677907791483862202'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/677907791483862202'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/sleep-glorious-sleep.html' title='Sleep, Glorious Sleep!'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-622313494910267317</id><published>2009-11-09T13:28:00.004-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T14:02:08.627-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pregnancy'/><title type='text'>Pregnancy Tests</title><summary type='text'>So now that I've got your attention with the title of this entry I'll begin by saying no, this is NOT an announcement. I am NOT expecting. We are still waiting for God to speak to us as to when He would like to introduce another child into our family. I was just thinking the other day about how exciting it was the first time I found out I was pregnant. I wasn't even late yet but I had taken a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/622313494910267317/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/pregnancy-tests.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/622313494910267317'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/622313494910267317'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/pregnancy-tests.html' title='Pregnancy Tests'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5428669329111048872</id><published>2009-11-02T14:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T14:35:31.798-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='discipline'/><title type='text'>Finding Love in the Midst of a Flood</title><summary type='text'>This is the continuation of my frustrations at the water cooler..."Spare the rod and spoil the child." (Proverbs 13:24 "He who withholds his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently")"Thy rod and staff, they comfort me" (Psalm 23:4)These are the two verses that came to the forefront of my mind in regard to discipline. I certainly don't hate my son and I want him to learn</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5428669329111048872/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/finding-love-in-midst-of-flood.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5428669329111048872'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5428669329111048872'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/11/finding-love-in-midst-of-flood.html' title='Finding Love in the Midst of a Flood'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-440057419240354497</id><published>2009-10-28T13:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T14:04:16.071-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='discipline'/><title type='text'>Trouble at the Water Cooler</title><summary type='text'>Since we live in the country and drink well water I get our water checked every year to make sure it's safe for drinking. Turns out that we have way too much fluoride for anyone under the age of 8. This means that I need to use bottled water for Caleb to drink and to cook his food with. We recently bought a water cooler for this very purpose. Plus because it's cold water my hope is that Adam will</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/440057419240354497/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/trouble-at-water-cooler.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/440057419240354497'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/440057419240354497'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/trouble-at-water-cooler.html' title='Trouble at the Water Cooler'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-370847312500880194</id><published>2009-10-25T18:19:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-25T18:22:46.747-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sacrifices'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='newborn'/><title type='text'>Commitment to a Newborn</title><summary type='text'>Caleb is currently out in the tractor with his papa and I started thinking about when he was just born and we thought this day would never come. The day when he is able to sit in the tractor all by himself while Adam gets work done has finally arrived. He sits in the little passenger seat and Adam buckles him in. It looks totally cute and he wants nothing to do with me. He waves goodbye to me and</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/370847312500880194/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/commitment-to-newborn.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/370847312500880194'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/370847312500880194'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/commitment-to-newborn.html' title='Commitment to a Newborn'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5722594862476975908</id><published>2009-10-21T11:30:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T13:00:42.439-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sharing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='toddler antics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breastfeeding'/><title type='text'>Milkies for Everyone!</title><summary type='text'>I am nursing my toddler. There, I said it. He's 18 months and going strong. We both enjoy it and we don't have any plans to stop nursing any time soon. That being said, nursing a toddler is completely different than nursing an infant.This morning I nursed a zebra...A friend was over with her little guy (5 weeks old) and sat on the couch nursing him in the football hold and he curled his little </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5722594862476975908/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/milkies-for-everyone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5722594862476975908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5722594862476975908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/milkies-for-everyone.html' title='Milkies for Everyone!'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5083225574888016910</id><published>2009-10-17T23:36:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-17T23:58:31.659-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vehicle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='law'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='car seat'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='safety'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pet peeve'/><title type='text'>Car Seats</title><summary type='text'>So this isn't really a post on parenting... well it kind of is. It's more about a pet peeve though. Regarding car seats. The law states that an infant must be rear facing until 20lbs AND 1 year old. Just because you have a big baby does NOT make it safe for you to turn your child around before they are 1. The reasons for this law is to protect your baby. A baby's neck muscles aren't well enough </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5083225574888016910/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/car-seats.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5083225574888016910'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5083225574888016910'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/car-seats.html' title='Car Seats'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-5335975439670160429</id><published>2009-10-14T15:14:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T15:19:07.443-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='background'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='history'/><title type='text'>My History</title><summary type='text'>I figured that today would be a good day to tell you a little about my journey up to this point in my life. 25 years ago on this day my parents recieved the wonderful gift of their second child, their first daughter. I was born in a little farmhouse in the Netherlands with a doctor, a nurse-midwife, and my mom and dad in attendance (and probably my older brother was there somewhere as well). </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/5335975439670160429/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/my-history_14.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5335975439670160429'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/5335975439670160429'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/my-history_14.html' title='My History'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041774695592579318.post-7282498430932001056</id><published>2009-10-11T16:32:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-10-11T19:13:44.981-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beliefs'/><title type='text'>Up and Running</title><summary type='text'>I've been thinking about starting a blog for quite some time now. I have been experimenting with an anonymous blog related to a mmorpg and decided that I quite enjoy being able to type a few words and letting my friends/guildies know what's been going on in my life. This blog is completely unrelated to mmorpgs though. I am, by nature, a very stubborn, opinionated person. I prefer to call myself </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/feeds/7282498430932001056/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/up-and-running.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7282498430932001056'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4041774695592579318/posts/default/7282498430932001056'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aimedattheheart.blogspot.com/2009/10/up-and-running.html' title='Up and Running'/><author><name>Tessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09946252859120421309</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_2664mRMcTB0/StJiImKw5iI/AAAAAAAAAAU/WzBmXCsQYTg/S220/287.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
